Ladye Bettie Downing 1892- 1969
1892. Ladye Bettie Downing was born 21/7/1892 Wolstanton Sep 1892 to parents Ralph Downing & Alice Jane Calkin . Wolstanton is in Staffs,~4 m N of Stoke on Trent . Actually born 21/7/1892- from 1898 baptism record
Ione Downing was baptised Silverdale 11/11/1896 to Ralph & Alice Jane, he a schoolmaster
1898 .Her father, Ralph Downing, dies Wolstanton Sep 1898, stated age 45
1898 Cecil Downing, born 9/5/1886, was baptised Silverdale St Luke 8/11/1898 as was Ralph Downing, born 22/9/1883, father Schoolmaster, address West Terrace.
. Ladye Bette Downing, born 21/7/1892, was baptised there 13/11/1898 . These 3 baptisms are after their father's death.
1901C . Ladye B Downing, 8, is a visitor with her mother, a retired school mistress, at 28 Victoria Street, Spittlegate Within, Grantham ,Lincs
| William | James | Head | Married | Male | 23 | 1878 | Fitter Steam Engine | Derby, Derbyshire, England | |
| Betsy | James | Wife | Married | Female | 22 | 1879 | - | Boylestone, Derbyshire, England | |
| Thomas H | Millward | Brother-In-Law | Married | Male | 21 | 1880 | General Labourer | Boylestone, Derbyshire, England | |
| Jona | Millward | Sister-In-Law | Married | Female | 19 | 1882 | - | Silverdale, Staffordshire, England | |
| Alice J | Downing | Visitor | Widow | Female | 45 | 1856 | Retired School Mistress | Stoke on Trent, Staffordshire, England | |
| Ladye B | Downing | Visitor | Single | Female | 8 | 1893 | - | Newcastle under Lyme, Staffordshire, England |
Jona Millward is Ladye B's sister Ione: Thomas H Millward married Ione Downing Uttoxeter Mar 1901.
Her brother, Ralph,17, student teacher, is living with his teacher uncle, Wm Calkin, 32, in Silverdale
1911C. Betty Downing, 18, assistant teacher, is living in 5 rooms at 35 Louise Street, Burslem , Staffs. The 3 teachers were workong for Stoke on Trent education Authority
| Ralph | Downing | Son | Single | Male | 27 | 1884 | Staffs Silverdale | Certificated Teacher | |
| Alice | Downing | Mother | Widow | Female | 55 | 1856 | Staffs Stoke on Trent | None | |
| Jane | Downing | Sister | Single | Female | 29 | 1882 | Staffs Silverdale | Certificated Teacher | |
| Cecil | Downing | Sister | Single | Female | 24 | 1887 | Staffs Silverdale | None | |
| Betty | Downing | Sister | Single | Female | 18 | 1893 | Staffs Newcastle U Lyme | Assistant Teacher |
Jane's / Ione's marriage to Thomas Millward appears to have ended!- he does not appear to die 1901-1911
1920. Betty Downing, actually aged 28, married Cyril Sydney Jones , 22, on 8/11/1920

Cyril Sydney Jones , aged 22, motor mechanic, married Betty Downing , 24!!, actually 28 , on 8/11/1920 at the R.C. St Francis of Sale & Gertrude, Larkham ,Lambeth . His father Sydney Jones, builder, deceased, hers Ralph Downing, army officer( this almost certainly fiction!), deceased. His address 181 South Lambert Rd, hers 21 Helix Gardens, Brixton Hill.. Witnesses Jeanne Mitchell, his ´remarried´ mother, and Mabel Hucknale.
1921. Cyril Ford Jones was born 5/4/1921 in Lambeth to Cyril Sydney Jones and Ladye Bettie Downing- 5 months after they married. Tim Jones has this b.c.- would give his parents' address and his father's occupation.
The marriage did not last long and it is thought there was a divorce: but it was Catholic marriage. Thus I assume Cyril Ford Jones wasbrought upby her and her sister
1939. Betty Jones, cinema cashier, is living with her widowed sister, Ione Millward, at 8 Bosley Way, Christchurch . Do not know why she, or the enumerator, has entered her as widowed!! _ her ex husband was still alive in Australia Daphne remembers her grandmother and Ione,( and cecilia??) as living at Priory House, Christchurch : this would seem an impressive building - did they live in a flat in it??. Betty was 6 foot tall, a brilliant pianist and a sad person: Did she suffer from macullar degeneration in later years, being classified as blind?? Daphne loved her but was told not to ask her any questions by her Aunt Ione
| Betty | Jones | 21 Jul 1892 | Female | Cinema Cashier | Widowed | 227 | 2 | |
| Ione | Millard | 11 Aug 1881 | Female | School Mistress (Retired) | Widowed | 227 |
No officially closed record, so son, Cyril 1921, is not living there.
1959. Her sister, Iona Millward, died Christchurch Dec 1959, stated b. 1881.No probate
1969. Lady B Jones died Christchurch Mar 1969, stated age 77.. No probate
1975. Her brother, Ralph Downing, died Fleetwood,Lancs, Sep 1975. No probate found, but this maybe due t Ancestry Probate records ending before 1975!!
1981., Her sister, Cecil Downing, gender Unknown!, died 20/3/1981, of 86 Priory Ct, Wick Lane, Christchurch. She left probate of 1520 pounds - Bournemouth Mar 1981